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Could it be her orgasm isn’t playing hide and seek after all? Maybe Mother Nature’s just playing a harmless little tease on the two of you.
Why is it that many women don’t climax from pure penetrative sex? It’s because 80 percent of women need some sort of clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm—either directly or indirectly. This means standard missionary-style penetration often misses the mark. Thankfully, there’s a solution to create an abundance of orgasms for your lover—and even simultaneous orgasms for you both!
All it takes is a little CAT, or "coital alignment technique". Simply put, it's basically aligning her clitoris and vulva with your pubic mound and base of your shaft during missionary-position sex. Instead of barely brushing past her orgasmic trigger, you can directly rub and stroke her clitoris and vulva (where most her orgasmic nerve endings are) with your body for more consistent pleasure while still being fully connected.
You just need to make a small adjustment to what you’re doing now. Here’s how:
Start in traditional missionary position, with a small pillow under her hips to provide lift and support for her pelvic angle. Generously apply lube on her-and yourself-for extra comfort and glide. After you gently enter, shift your body up several inches so your pelvis is directly aligned with hers. You’ll be positioned slightly higher, with your chest closer to her shoulders rather than face-to-face. With this alignment, your body creates more consistent friction against her vulva and clitoris with each movement.
Now take it a step further with technique: while staying close and connected, slowly gyrate and move your pelvis in small circles as you press against her. The trick here is to maintain steady contact rather than pulling away and thrusting in and out. Keep your body connected and find a rhythm that feels right for her. You’ll know you’ve found it when she responds by pulling you closer, tightening her legs around you, or hearing her moan!
Here’s how it works: by simply adjusting your position slightly, you provide the consistent clitoral contact and friction many women need to climax. With that one shift, you can move from “good” to a more attentive, responsive lover that gives her orgasms—during intercourse.
Once you’ve got the hang of it, you can enhance the experience further by incorporating gentle, clitoral finger-tip touching to build intensity, or try a couple's sex toy, like a vibrating orgasm ring.
You might think this would all happen naturally, but sometimes it just takes a little awareness and adjustment. So next time, remember: shift, connect, and enjoy the experience together*
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