Just like during sex, the girls start off with a little foreplay talking about the “fine line between erotic and psychotic” when it comes to playing with your man’s balls. “The family jewels are delicate so start slow,” Dr. Sadie recommends. “Ask your man what they like - they like that.”
Things heat up when Dr. Sadie and Emily start getting into dirty talk, how to give the perfect blowjob, and why all women should get over their hang ups about masturbation and start mastering it, like, right this second.
“How can a man figure out how to pleasure you, if you haven’t figured it out yourself?” Dr. Sadie points out. Amen, sister.
Then the two got to the bottom of it - analplay.
“All booties are created equally,” Dr. Sadie says with a laugh.
Whether you want to start mild or get wild, anal sex doesn’t have to be all about penetration. “Back it up,” Dr. Sadie tells Emily. “The whole butt is an erogenous zone. You don’t have to go all the way. There are lots of other things you can do that feel great.”
She also stresses communication and safety when it comes to backdoor action and—most importantly—to take things slow and warm up before diving right in. To ease into it, try Dr. Sadie’s Couple’s HotTush Pleasure Kit. It has everything you need to get started on your own anal adventure without getting too overwhelmed. Need to ease into it slowly? Find a FREE Sensual Erotic Story about two lovers trying analplay for the first time, on the Tickle Kitty homepage to get your curiosities flowing.
“It doesn’t have to be scary … The slower you go, the faster you get there,” Dr. Sadie points out to listeners.
One hot tip to try ASAP – Take the pad of your fingertip and use it to push lightly on the anus. Do that during oral sex to knock his socks off tonight.
For more steamy pointers like this, listen to the entire podcast at the top of this page. Be warned: this crash course in orgasms will make it hard for you to pull yourself away from your bedroom.
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