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Imagine a couple enjoying a romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant, where the gentleman gifts her a stunning piece of jewelry. Following dessert, a limo carries them back to a 5 star hotel which was reserved months in advance. Behind the hotel room door, she follows a trail of rose petals to the bed, where there is champagne on ice.
They don’t even finish their first glasses, before their clothing finds the bedroom floor. The tangible passion which brought them together in the first place ignites, and it doesn’t take long until he is inside her. And just as soon as it all began, he finishes. He kisses her on the cheek, rolls over and falls asleep.
They had a wonderful evening, but can you spot room for improvement?
If he had put as much time and thought into the lovemaking, as he did with the rest of the night, she would have been truly blown away. Because fancy outings and jewelry is great, but nothing beats the gift of orgasm.
Luckily, you aren’t that couple, and you still have time to prepare. There is nothing more romantic than climaxing at the same time, and the following tips will help you achieve this.
Use those frisky fingers and your insatiable tongue. Get her to the point where she has to verbally ask you to enter inside of her, because she can’t bear the build up anymore.
Even if she doesn’t reach a clitoral orgasm, simply by getting her fully aroused and inches from exploding with pleasure, you will find that when you do plunge your penis inside her, she will hardly be able to contain it.
By using aclitoral vibe during foreplay, he will be in an ideal position to get her to climax during intercourse. Especially if he uses avibrating penis ring, which pleasures him and her at the same time.
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Simply put, all you need to do to master the clit is have plenty of lube, learn the positions that cater to the clitoris, and listen to her as she guides you to her ultimate pleasure.
As shared in Dr. Sadie's book‘Ride ‘Em Cowgirl!’, there are many positions which can help you fulfill this. The book is helpful in that it provides titillating illustrations, but if you haven’t picked up a copy yet, here are a few position ideas with easy to follow directions:
High Rider:
While in missionary position, he rides high, pressing her clitoris with each stroke. She grabs his hips and stimulates powerful orgasms.
Cushion Pushin’:
He sits down on a chair or couch, and she sits down on him, facing each other. She holds his neck (or back of the couch) for balance. From here, she has the ability to pleasure-rub or power-thrust -- or both.
Stargazer:
This position is a little more advanced, but definitely worth a shot. For this one, she transitions from reverse cowgirl, to joining him in lying on her back (still on top of him, with him inside). From here it’s easy for him to reach his thoughtful hand and play with her clitoris.
Let’s start with the morning of the big night. If you haven’t orgasmed in a while, it might be a good idea to do so, which will ensure you last longer that evening. Better yet, propose the idea of a quickie with your lover prior to breakfast. It’s always a good idea to have a little sausage with breakfast!
Before the big moment, feel free to purchase a desensitizer spray or condoms with a numbing agent. Such products will numb the erect penis, which will help him hold his horses.
Lastly, during intercourse itself, simply pull out to pause when you approach an orgasm. Now you can spend time focusing onher pleasure while you cool your jets. Maybe you’ll be able to get her close to an orgasm (or two) of her own during this break, and it will be much easier to accomplish a simultaneous orgasm when you resume.
Be open with each otherbefore,during andafter, and do so with more than just verbal dialogue and direction. Use your gleeful moans, a guiding hand, and even a simple, “YES!”.
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Intercourse is all about timing. It’s about knowing and accommodating each other’s bodies. So learn what makes yourselves tick, get something that buzzes or whirrs to lend and a hand, and take advantage of this.
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