How well do you know your handjobs? For a lot of us, it was the first time we ever involved another person in our sex lives. It was a gateway to steamier sex acts, and for that it will always have a special place in our hearts. But you don't have to think of them as relics from your high school hook-ups!
We believe in all kinds of manual stimulation appreciation! Whether you're a seasoned pro with your favorite keep-him-coming grip, or you've only dabbled in the fine, underrated art of handjobs, you'll want to check out some of our favorite techniques. We go from simple and reliable strokes to wrist-twisting, finger-sliding, two-handed showstoppers.
Before we start, let us give you the basics.
For a real holy-smokes handjob, always grab the lube! Use silicone-based lube for maximum slipperiness, or your favorite water-based lube if you're going to bring in toys.
Once you're ready to get your manual massaging on, start with teasing to get him all worked up. When you're driving, you don't go from 0-60 right out of your garage, right? Start with slow strokes that build up for an unforgettable ride to pleasure.
And for any technique, you can always use both hands. Start with one, then bring in the other... or switch off to mix it up. Your less-dominant hand can be for teasing, while you can use your dominant one for power-stroking. Then go at it simultaneously the grand finale!
Now let's move on to the fancy stuff...

Dr. Sadie Sez: It doesn't always have to be a quickie. Stroke him slowly for a few minutes, then speed up for 10 seconds. As soon as he's ready to explode, back off his head and work just the shaft. You'll see him get rock-hard and beet-red. When you're ready, give him some relief with his favorite technique.

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Dr. Sadie Sez:Aside from a sensual thumb massage, you can also try tapping! Lightly tap up and down his penis--and on his V-spot--to drive him insane. Or try this to wake up a penis that's playing hard to get!
Dr. Sadie Sez:With your stroking hand, create a slippery twisting rhythm. Each time you reach the head, add in a little extra swirly motion to make sure you light up every single nerve ending he's got.
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